i finally understand why love is called a special feeling. it is a feeling of one person towards another person. however, that feeling is ever so special to the one who felt it. when this special feeling is being shown in action, speech or other possible means of affection, the other person feels loved. so i guess the whole thing abt being loved is to feel that you are indeed special to someone else.

is that important? yes. i would like to think so. to let that person u have a special feeling towards feel that he/she is indeed special in at least 1 person out of the large amount of ppl in this crazy world.

i was inspired not by my own relationship but my brother's current relationship. they were giving out so much special feeling for one another that it is annoying(in a good way). so far, everything seems good with the 2 of them. interestingly, a few weekends spent at our place, his gf seems to bonded with our family.

did someone tell u recently that u were special to them in some way? if u have someone to say it to, dun hesitate. that feeling might sit with u till the time u enter the grave. however, if u never make it known to the other person, u might jus enter the grave, alone.

wat is a special feeling? if u know that the person hardly bothers if he/she gets his/her frens angry. but bothers to at least come over cuddle around and ask whats wrong. that will be a subtle but special feeling through actions

or sometimes the good old "u are special to me" works wonders, that is IF u really meant it. it maybe easy to con someone abt such matters, but it doesnt end well.

another thing that i think is essential in a relationship is trust. although this is a very very old topic. i have only begun to realise wat it actually means. trust is actually a very general trust, from personality to behaviour. u can say u trust this or that person, but its hardly the case.

more often than not, there is seldom a comprehensive trust between 2 persons. how about the long-lasting couples, u say. this is the really tricky part, communication. its because of communication that is final tool to bring 2 persons to trust each another more. during communication, understanding of one another is built, queries, doubts and misunderstandings are challenged.

its hard to talk abt trust between 2 persons. it is more of a personal path of finding out the whys hows and the astonishing wats