yesterday...joyous occasion
yesterday was the day my god-sister got married. this is the official god-sister, not one of those god-sis that young school children declare every now and then.wondering why all of a sudden god-sister character popped out?
actually it all began when i was a tad younger. the images are vague, but the rough content are still there. i remember a particular stranger male in the mid-30s saying something to my mummy. something along the line of getting me a god-mother. the rest of the images that remained intact was about the fervous discussion to approach who. obvious its the discussion between 2 of the most impt women in my childhood years, mummy and grandmother(maternal).
in the end, they approached my 2nd uncle's wife. this uncle was my mother's elder brother, make that the 2nd elder brother. to add to that, from that moment after the ceremony, he will have additional status. for my brain at that age, i still had difficulty to comprehend that complex relationship situtation they setting me in.
i was never good in the whole addressing relatives things. now, they jus made it worse for me. i used to address him as Jiu-Jiu(brothers relating to mother). then the usually father will be addressed as Fu or Pa. the end result, i have to now address him as Jiu-Fu and his wife, Jiu-Mu.
frankly, this post is really very difficult to produce.
maybe its because i have started to realise that i sorta owe them something, my duty as their god-son. i must admit, i am not actually doin my part. haiz...i really hope i can do a little something for them.
but heres my congrats to my god-sister and her husband. eternal bliss.
oops...almost forgot to update on the progress of LiNG. so far the mechanical drawing is nearing completion. doin embodiment carefully filling in all the details, dimensions and spaces. soon, week 3 is coming, time runs like nobody's biz.