the 3 days i have spent at harvest caterin has been wonderful. mostly because i get to roam around with ray(the driver) and not to mention being consistently surrounded by foodstuffs and goodies. although there are strict unmentioned rules about us pilfering the foodstuff, accidents do happen. like how? when super delicious chicken gravy accidentally get spilled over your careless hands when disposing off. heavenly...even when its quite cold.

well the best part would be to roam around when u work. hehe...i am beginning to envy myself getting all the good jobs in the market. my first was a toys promoter. job scope play with toys and then at the same time promote about it. now, my job is a cater-er boy. job scope to roam around singapore and get my job done. hehe...good eh : )

jus yesterday i was havin some chit chat session with ray. not that i have ran out on topics to talk, but i jus wanted some advice on the affairs of the heart. of late, i have been having quite abit of trouble myself. so i thot of seeking some advice and hopefully get some ground rules of the game.

little did i expect a full lecture into such matters. he went on and on about his experience and started to dish out advice. NOT that i disliked it, i quite enjoyed it, till one point in his lecture. at that point, my brain had formed up a picture of wat ray had said.

he made out the whole love affair thing to be very battle-like. with the whole anaylsis about present stats and tactics. (wondering) shld i continue to spill the beans on such classified information? hmmm...better not. anyway, he taught me quite some tacts and i picked up a few of them. the rest of the tacts he imparted i jus dun feel quite comfort with them. anyway to him, its a raving battle going on.

althought i have keen interest in the art of war, but it doesnt mean i am pro-war. and i certainly not very into turing the affairs of the heart into another battlefield. i am more keen to treating it as a game, RPG adventure game. with limited resources, stages to clear and sub-plots, mysteries and quests to complete.

the problem was that i had littel knowledge about the rules of the game. things like basic assumption in this game that people make in this game. one very specific basic assumption, holding of hands. i didnt know that it meant a union of two lovebirds till recent years only. so i guess there more to be learnt. and oh, while learning that, self understanding is also very important.

like i have said, i was recently submerged into certain problem. recently, i have been ....oh well nvmind...