again, that friendly auntie enquires into my not so private love life.

hmmm...an introduction to that friendly auntie. she is really friendly. she is basically liken my part-time mother(fate seems to think i lack of motherly care, love and concern)

hmmm...maybe i branch off to another aspect of my life. i got quite a few mothers in my life. erm...lets do a re-count.

first there was my biological mother, who is THANKFULLY and GRATEFULLY still with me. she is the one that has ENDURED my wraith, temper, impossibilities, downs and outs. if anyone has a chance to look back at my history, i would guess i could be named mother-abuser. hmmm...i was back then on medication throughout my childhood years. my mood SWINGS...and believe it. she always got the painful end but she was still there when i fall sick DEFINITELY. few mothers can have the figure my mother has, because my period of illness are her periods of sliming. those where my primary school days.

from my birth till my primary school days, my maternal grand-mother took me in hand. i can only remember fragments of those days. she was in some way one of my part-time mothers too.

then, few years down the road, my parents consulted some astrologist and got me a god-mother. this god-mother turns out to be the wife of my mother's second brother. my relationship with her can be described as the pond that resides deep in the mountains. as calm as can be, platonic. seriously, i jus dun know what this god-son duties and rites. i guess i am as bad a god-son jus as i am a son.

then my younger brother started school. that friendly auntie was the mother of a classmate of my younger brother. that was how this part-time mother came into my life. she was always the more smiley one. unlike my mother who have 2 sons, she bore 2 daughters. haha...one might be tempted to think that our two families might end up getting more close. :p WRONG! however, we were on quite close terms though. we went on a few overseas trips togther. Genting Highlands being the more frequent place.

this auntie was always keeping track of my ongoings. to a point, i thot that there was i was a share in the share market. oh...another thing, this auntie was one of the share dabbler cum ka-ki(partner) my mother had(such activities had taken a slow-down, due to the greater ease and winning the Singapore Pools provided). recently, Auntie(a name i call her by) took interest in my love life.

hmmm...weird. she keeps on giving me confidence in myself. it seems to her that i am super qualified to have a gf and to even have a wife. :p then she would provide me on tips on girl selection, like select girls with a pure heart rather than a angelic looking face one. recent tips include certain dialect groups that she thinks are a no-no(due to the discrimatory nature of the following content, it has been censored)to be wife nor gf material.anyway, she is jus one of those friends that my mother really enjoys talkin to.

how do i know?
Answer : by the number of hours of NON-Stop conversation